Being a Girl With Strict Parents

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It's not a doubt to say that living with strict parents is somehow a survival life.

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> As a girl, seeing your agemates going out and having so much freedom to make their own decisions without being forced can be painful.

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> To be realistic, parents try to be strict but I guess it's their way of showing love for us.

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> Being under strict parenting has both advantages and disadvantages. Yes, it instills discipline in us and other moral values. So you grow up being that "good girl."

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> But wait — being a nice girl every time is tiresome. You are human, you can make mistakes. On the contrary, whenever you find yourself in a mistake, you merely want the world to open up and swallow you.

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> Why? This simply shows the fear that lives in you because of strict parenting.

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> My dear, it is life. You cannot run away from it. They are your parents, they love you. Just obey knowing that someday you will be free. You will make decisions on your own.


> Trust the process, you are not alone. Though, it's painful.




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